Over the years, i have made some good and some great friends. My intention is not to boast about the prodigious number here, but, someday when i sit and actually think over it, i find too less a person with whom i can relate. To less a person is just an exaggeration of one or two, which goes to prove that i love boasting :P. On a serious note, Its really tough to have a friend who would be as much you as you. You could find the ideal friends in stories and fictional work otherwise called prose, abbreviated form of prosaic meaning dull; in reality, such cases cease somehow. The point that i want to put here is: Who is a friend?
In this world of today, its all about needs. You have a friend for you have a need for it, for you depend on someone for something. Interdependence has literally made us, as one of the english poem says, hollow men. Take it, Having a great group of friends means that few stupid people come together to placate themselves of their biggest fear - 'loneliness'. For me, loneliness is a harsh word, i prefer solitude over it. It's the calmness which makes me overcome the harsh realities of life, do hell with friends who would take up this as a topic for gossiping. After all its your life and interdependence should in no aspect be present. The moment you start depending, you have lost 'You' and hence You would become a part of a gregarious bunch of idiots who try making each other feel special for doing nothing.
There's no person, but you, to whom you can look up for support. Gulp every thought within yourself. Let it flow out only when its hard to digest the meat. For enjoying life, read partying hard, you always have Free-and-Regular-Idiots-Engineered-to-Devour-Stupidness better called as friends. Have fun with them, satisfy your need and move on. Devour yourself..!!! Take out the best out of you. FRIENDS are here to make your life an exaggeration. They are here to make you feel the King of the world. Decide what you want to feel and what you want to achieve out of the ONLY life!!!
P.S. The writer of this blog is after all a social animal..
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i so agree with the second paragraph! :-)
to be specific with these lines... "After all its your life and interdependence should in no aspect be present. The moment you start depending, you have lost 'You'."
i disagree except for a few sentences! Friends are nothing but an exaggeration!!! No way!!! We shall discuss at length at your convinience!
There's no person, but you, to whom you can look up for support. Gulp every thought within yourself. Let it flow out only when its hard to digest the meat. For enjoying life, read partying hard, you always have Free-and-Regular-Idiots-Engineered-to-Devour-Stupidness better called as friends. Have fun with them, satisfy your need and move on. Devour yourself..!!! Take out the best out of you. FRIENDS are here to make your life an exaggeration. They are here to make you feel the King of the world. Decide what you want to feel and what you want to achieve out of the ONLY life!!!
Each and every human being looks for support dude, be it an emotional one or any other one.. Frnds r not there to exaggerate your life. They r there in ur gud and bad times.. Have fun with them and move on.. I guess here u were talking abt frnds and not sluts :)
We will talk more abt it in a group :)
'A friend is someone who knows your song and sings t to you when you've forgotten it yourself', such a person is not found in a crowd but in solitude, it's you, your inner self...so look within....
.... I would not totally agree with your thots ...these thots creep your mind when in ,as you say "solitude ".....
F.R.I.E.N.D is not a exaggerated relation ... It's a reflection of "You"..... U many not have many but the few that "You" collect are gonna give ur solitude ... it's solace ......
Friends bring those moments in your life which u ponder in your solitude .....
Friends are reminiscence of "You" as a social animal
hi nitin
nice to read your thoughts...we need to discuss a lot about what you've written!!!
take care
@achal sir, anytime :)
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